Grief Support

Materials and pamphlets:

A variety of small pamphlets on grieving and grief helping are available in the lobby at Forbes Funeral Home, 319 W. Spruce St., Sturgeon Bay (9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Mon.-Fri.). Materials are free.

Local Support Groups:

The Compassionate Friends

Green Bay's self-help group for parents and grandparents who have lost a child of any age. Contact The Compassionate Friends of Green Bay for meeting times and places (920-437-9252) 501 Howe St. Green Bay, WI 54301.

Grief Share

2021 Schedule

Loss of a Spouse - Sunday, July 25, 2021  1:00 - 3:00 p.m.

Widowed?  Help is here and hope is possible.  Do you dread the lonely days and nights?  Wonder what to do with your spouse's belongings?  Feel like your brain is in a fog?  Unsure of how you'll go on?  At a Loss of a Spouse seminar you'll discover:  Other people understand and have found ways to make it through why it won't always hurt so much, reasons for hope, practical tips for coping with the death of a spouse.

Griefshare - Thursday, September 2, 2021  6:00 - 8:00 p.m.

Surviving the Holidays - Sunday, November 21, 2021  1:00 - 3:00 p.m.

Help and hope as you navigate the Christmas season.  Wondering how you will survive the weeks surrounding Thanksgiving and Christmas?  Are you dreading these holidays, knowing that everything has changed and that happy memories from past years can't be recreated.  Our Surviving the Holidays seminar is especially for people who are grieving a loved one's death.  You'll learn how to deal with the many emotions you'll face during the holidays.  What to do about traditions and other coming changes.  Helpful tips for surviving social events.  And how to discover hope for your future.  There is no charges for any of the Griefshare events.  Invite a friend to come along.

All events are held at St. Peter's Lutheran Church, 108 West Maple Street, Sturgeon Bay, WI 54235

Any questions, please contact Bob Johnson:  (920) 495-0393

Senior Life Solutions

Senior Life Solutions is a program dedicated to addressing the emotional and behavioral health of older adults.  Senior Life Solutions is designed to meet the unique needs of older adults who may be experiencing any of the following:  Loss of a loved one, decreased energy, difficulty sleeping or eating, life transitions, acting as a caregiver, recent health diagnosis, chronic health condition, feeling lonely or isolated, feelings of uncertainty and worry, and loss of interest.  Senior Life Solutions program staff includes a board-certified psychiatrist, licensed therapist, registered nurse, and other trained professionals to ensure you receive the best possible care.

Anyone can refer an individual to the program, including physicians, family members, self-referrals, or other healthcare professionals.  If you or someone you know could benefit from this program, please contact us:  (920) 746-3778

"Grounds for Hope" Grief Circle

There is no magic "fix" for grief, the process is often difficult, and can even seem unbearable at times, participating in a grief support group can't take those realities away, but joining the 'Grounds for Hope' Grief Circle means... you don't have to face your grief alone.

Meeting place:  Caffe' Tlazo, 607 4th Street, Algoma, Wisconsin 54201

Dates:  2nd Wednesday of every month, beginning May 12, 2021, and ending October 13, 2021

Times:  10:00 to 11:30 AM

To reserve your space, please contact:  Patti at (920) 278-3479, or email:

Infant Death Center

The Infant Death Center connects with families who experience a sudden and unexpected death of an infant to better understand their unique grieving needs and provides appropriate resources.  Staff works closely with professionals serving grieving families to provide additional resources and self-care information for the professional.  Visit the Infant Death Center at www.chawisconsilorg for a complete listing of resources or call (414) 292-4046.

Life After Loss of a Spouse:  Hope Through Healing Grief Workshop

Pleas join us each month for an hour of learning and sharing.  Learn how to open your toolbox and get tips on how to utilize these tools throughout your grieving process.  Hear from grief experts as well as from fellow community members who are also journeying through grief.  You may wish to share your story or to ask questions, or you may prefer to listen and reflect.  All are welcome.  There is no cost to attend.  Meetings are held on the 2nd Thursday of the month at 10:00 a.m. at Bay View Lutheran Church, 340 West Maple Street in Sturgeon Bay, WI.  The facilitator for this group is Mandy Sarazen from AseraCare Hospice.  Light snacks and refreshments will be served.  Registration is not required, but appreciated.  Call (920) 743-4705

Healing from Loss

A grief support group for MEN who have lost their spouse is held on the 1st Tuesday of every month at Tanum-Forest Lutheran Church (at 6140 County Road OO) in Sturgeon Bay.  It is not a church-based group.  There is no cost.  For more information, call (920) 743-2009 or (920) 743-4705.

Unity Hospice Grief Support Groups

A five week grief support group offered throughout the year for adults who have experienced the loss of a loved one.  Meets at the Library on the 2nd Wednesday of every month.  Call 920-338-1111 or 1-800-990-9249.


Counseling Resources:

The following resources are self-identified as providing counseling expertise specific to grief related issues. Their appearance on our web page does not imply a referral, recommendation, or endorsement of their services by our firm.

Counseling Associates of Door County, 743-9554

Door County Dept. of Community Programs, 746-2345

Dr. Dennis White, Clinical Psychologist, 743-1346

Unity Hospice, 743-6440

Chaplain Joan Carlson, 868-9471

Caring for those who are grieving

Realize that nothing you can do or say can make the hurt go away. There are no perfect words to say so don’t worry about finding the ideal words. Your presence alone at the wake or funeral communicates that you care and is very comforting to the survivors.

Be a good listener. A grieving person needs to talk in order to work through their grief. Talking about their feelings is an excellent release for them. Survivor’s may want to replay the events of the death. Don’t be judgmental about the survivor’s feelings and don’t feel like you should have answers to all of their questions. Just listen and make them feel understood.

Instead of attempting to offer justification or explanation of the death (he’s no longer suffering…God must have needed her), just simply express your sympathy and your true feelings about the situation, (boy, I’m really going to miss him, or I’m so sorry for your loss, or my heart really aches for you). By doing this you are opening the door for the survivor to express their true feeling and you avoid minimizing or invalidating their feelings.

Send a sympathy card with feelings from your heart, as opposed to a pre-printed one.

Continue to speak of the deceased and share your good memories with the grieving. Conversation need not be limited to the serious. There are times when chatting and laughing about normal things can be helpful.

The journey of grief is long and hard. The process continues long after the funeral is over and the survivor “appears” better. Continue your support for months after the funeral and perhaps up to a year or two.

Offer specific help to the grieving, not vague offers like “let me know if there is anything I can do for you”. Be specific, like “I would like to watch your children on Saturday afternoon for you, or I am going to bring a meal over today”.

Invite the bereaved to regular activities, like going to church, public events, social engagements or just have them over for dinner or desert. Encourage them to resume normal activities like work, church, and recreation, even if the don’t feel like it.

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